Mrs AL in Her own words
I was always a bit dominant in our marriage, but several years ago my husband came to me and said he wanted a full FLR (female-led relationship). I replied that I doubted he was serious but I would write up a non-negotiable list of rules and consequences and he would have to sign a contract to accept them all. I decided to make it pretty outlandish so he would say he couldn't accept it and it would be clear he wasn't serious about FLR. I developed the list over several days, surprising myself that the first three were about bathrooms! I guess I felt more resentment about them than I realized:
1. The master bathroom is women only and you will enter it only to clean.
2. You will clean all the bathrooms every Saturday and on my command.
3. You will sit down to pee. Any pee on the rim or the seat will result in punishment, whether it is you or one of your friends.
I then moved on to other matters:
4. You will do all chores as assigned without complaint.
5. All bank accounts and credit cards will be in my name only. You will get a weekly allowance that I will determine. You must get permission for all other expenditures.
6. Time with your friends must be earned by doing your chores and having a good attitude.
7. You will treat me with the utmost respect at all times, acting as the perfect gentleman. You will obey me implicitly. When I give an order you will say "Yes Ma'am" and immediately carry it out.
8. You will treat all of my friends with respect. When they come to visit you will serve us as waiter and maid or make yourself scarce if I tell you to, including leaving the premises.
9. When I put you on speech restrictions you will speak only when spoken to. You should expect that often.
10. You will accept any punishments I determine, including but not limited to spanking, cornertime, mouth soaping, writing lines, loss of privileges, extra chores, and early bedtime.
11. You will agree to any other rules as I decide them.
I then moved on to sex, writing rules I was sure he would refuse:
12. You will perform oral sex on command, with a daily expectation.
13. You will receive oral sex once a year, on your birthday.
14. Pussy is a privilege that must be earned by the work you do and your attitude. Even if I allow intercourse, you may cum only with permission and will often be denied.
15. Sharing my bed is a privilege. I will tell you each night at bedtime whether you can sleep with me.
16. You will do whatever I say in the bedroom, just as you do everywhere else.
17. Masturbation is strictly forbidden. If I believe you have masturbated, you will be punished. If it continues to be a problem, we will look into chastity devices and you will agree to wear one.
I handed him the list and told him he had 30 minutes to sign, with no changes whatsoever. I expected him to laugh hysterically and tear it up. Eight minutes later he signed it and handed it back. I was flabbergasted.
That was three years ago. I am happier than I have ever been, with my busy man-servant. Every single girlfriend has asked me how I changed my husband overnight. I tell them the truth: I wrote up a contract and he signed it and we are living by it.
Amazingly, my husband says he has never been happier. He does much more work around the house and orgasms much less (now locked in chastity), but he is full of sexual energy and truly adores me.
1. The master bathroom is women only and you will enter it only to clean.
2. You will clean all the bathrooms every Saturday and on my command.
3. You will sit down to pee. Any pee on the rim or the seat will result in punishment, whether it is you or one of your friends.
I then moved on to other matters:
4. You will do all chores as assigned without complaint.
5. All bank accounts and credit cards will be in my name only. You will get a weekly allowance that I will determine. You must get permission for all other expenditures.
6. Time with your friends must be earned by doing your chores and having a good attitude.
7. You will treat me with the utmost respect at all times, acting as the perfect gentleman. You will obey me implicitly. When I give an order you will say "Yes Ma'am" and immediately carry it out.
8. You will treat all of my friends with respect. When they come to visit you will serve us as waiter and maid or make yourself scarce if I tell you to, including leaving the premises.
9. When I put you on speech restrictions you will speak only when spoken to. You should expect that often.
10. You will accept any punishments I determine, including but not limited to spanking, cornertime, mouth soaping, writing lines, loss of privileges, extra chores, and early bedtime.
11. You will agree to any other rules as I decide them.
I then moved on to sex, writing rules I was sure he would refuse:
12. You will perform oral sex on command, with a daily expectation.
13. You will receive oral sex once a year, on your birthday.
14. Pussy is a privilege that must be earned by the work you do and your attitude. Even if I allow intercourse, you may cum only with permission and will often be denied.
15. Sharing my bed is a privilege. I will tell you each night at bedtime whether you can sleep with me.
16. You will do whatever I say in the bedroom, just as you do everywhere else.
17. Masturbation is strictly forbidden. If I believe you have masturbated, you will be punished. If it continues to be a problem, we will look into chastity devices and you will agree to wear one.
I handed him the list and told him he had 30 minutes to sign, with no changes whatsoever. I expected him to laugh hysterically and tear it up. Eight minutes later he signed it and handed it back. I was flabbergasted.
That was three years ago. I am happier than I have ever been, with my busy man-servant. Every single girlfriend has asked me how I changed my husband overnight. I tell them the truth: I wrote up a contract and he signed it and we are living by it.
Amazingly, my husband says he has never been happier. He does much more work around the house and orgasms much less (now locked in chastity), but he is full of sexual energy and truly adores me.