naughty step / place
These ideas are ideally used to diffuse situations rather than for planned time outs.
If a planned time out is needed, corner time is better as it has more resonance with the husband, and he is generally taken to his corner rather than sent to it.
These ideas also work best without predetermined times so that the husband is unsure of how long he will be in his naughty place and the time can be controlled to make sure the situation is diffused.
If a planned time out is needed, corner time is better as it has more resonance with the husband, and he is generally taken to his corner rather than sent to it.
These ideas also work best without predetermined times so that the husband is unsure of how long he will be in his naughty place and the time can be controlled to make sure the situation is diffused.
Naughty Rug
A good suggestion for a naughty place is a round rug that can be placed anywhere in the home. On being given a certain command the husband is sent directly to the rug and has to sit within its perimeter, to wait until fetched back. All limbs should be kept within its perimeter, enforcing sitting quite tightly if a 70cm diameter rug is chosen This is an easy ritual to set up, well disguised from visitors and can be used very effectively to diffuse situations. All that is need is an understood command, and a rug. SANDKÅS ikea 70 cm round rug = naughty spot - see here |
Reader's suggestions
A naughty seat could have a bristly coconut fibre doormat, to cover the seat of a chair. He would usually be made to sit on it with his bare bottom after a spanking to keep the sensation fresh, but it is also quite uncomfortable on its own.
The time out rug could also be bristly. If the husband is completely undressed and has to remain on such a door mat, whatever size they may be available, it would add to his discomfort, no matter if he choose to stand on it, kneel on it or sit on it or even lay on his back.
Smaller sizes would also make sitting without exceeding the borders of the mat quite difficult
Thanks to Mrs Vera Domenica
If using a naught chair or rug, the husband should have to get or buy his own. He could make a chair if he is capable but even having to buy one would make them think.
Thanks Mrs JA
A very important aspect of the Time Out punishment is that talking is strictly forbidden for the full duration of the punishment.
An effective way to insure this and also increase the culprits humiliation is to use a pacifier.
This should be inserted into the husband's mouth by his wife and with strict instructions that he is not to spit it out.
Corner time is usually used as a punishment for childish behaviour so a pacifier is very appropriate.
Thanks to James
A naughty seat could have a bristly coconut fibre doormat, to cover the seat of a chair. He would usually be made to sit on it with his bare bottom after a spanking to keep the sensation fresh, but it is also quite uncomfortable on its own.
The time out rug could also be bristly. If the husband is completely undressed and has to remain on such a door mat, whatever size they may be available, it would add to his discomfort, no matter if he choose to stand on it, kneel on it or sit on it or even lay on his back.
Smaller sizes would also make sitting without exceeding the borders of the mat quite difficult
Thanks to Mrs Vera Domenica
If using a naught chair or rug, the husband should have to get or buy his own. He could make a chair if he is capable but even having to buy one would make them think.
Thanks Mrs JA
A very important aspect of the Time Out punishment is that talking is strictly forbidden for the full duration of the punishment.
An effective way to insure this and also increase the culprits humiliation is to use a pacifier.
This should be inserted into the husband's mouth by his wife and with strict instructions that he is not to spit it out.
Corner time is usually used as a punishment for childish behaviour so a pacifier is very appropriate.
Thanks to James