Mrs SA in Her own words
I am 34 years old in a female led relationship with a man of 42 and we have been married for the last four years. There are no children as my husband suffers from erectile dysfunction so is incapable of intercourse and remains a virgin. This is partly physical but also a mental problem of which I was fully aware before we married but proceeded as I have no desire for offspring.
I own and manage two ladies’ clothes shops and employ several female staff. One of them was my husband’s mother who introduced us six years ago. I soon realised that she dominated her son and was very much in charge domestically while she recognised my natural assertiveness. She believed that opposites attract and I was the type of woman her husband needed in his life. He was certainly meek and mild and totally under the control of his mother who still punished him like a naughty child if he did not behave.
These punishments included early bedtimes and not allowing him out in the evenings and weekends. She also sometimes dressed him in especially childish clothes around the house including in front of visitors so as to humiliate him. She also reemployed a much younger female babysitter from when her son was in his teens through his 20s and 30s. He never rebelled and always did as he was told. Mummy was totally in control.
With my assertive nature there was an instant mutual attraction. I told him at the outset that it would be a female dominated relationship and he would be expected to do as he was told in all matters. I also hired him as my assistant, secretary, and accountant for the business.
We have a happy and successful marriage although I am very strict with him and allow myself plenty of freedom to see other males. Like the relationship with his mother ours is one of mother and child and certainly never equals. I view him as my little boy and address him as such in front of others (mostly women who have similar views to myself). He in turn fully accepts his inferior role. Although he is 42 he considers himself as a child rather than an adult.
I am a strong believer in women being in control of males especially those who are immature and need discipline and direction.
I own and manage two ladies’ clothes shops and employ several female staff. One of them was my husband’s mother who introduced us six years ago. I soon realised that she dominated her son and was very much in charge domestically while she recognised my natural assertiveness. She believed that opposites attract and I was the type of woman her husband needed in his life. He was certainly meek and mild and totally under the control of his mother who still punished him like a naughty child if he did not behave.
These punishments included early bedtimes and not allowing him out in the evenings and weekends. She also sometimes dressed him in especially childish clothes around the house including in front of visitors so as to humiliate him. She also reemployed a much younger female babysitter from when her son was in his teens through his 20s and 30s. He never rebelled and always did as he was told. Mummy was totally in control.
With my assertive nature there was an instant mutual attraction. I told him at the outset that it would be a female dominated relationship and he would be expected to do as he was told in all matters. I also hired him as my assistant, secretary, and accountant for the business.
We have a happy and successful marriage although I am very strict with him and allow myself plenty of freedom to see other males. Like the relationship with his mother ours is one of mother and child and certainly never equals. I view him as my little boy and address him as such in front of others (mostly women who have similar views to myself). He in turn fully accepts his inferior role. Although he is 42 he considers himself as a child rather than an adult.
I am a strong believer in women being in control of males especially those who are immature and need discipline and direction.